In BFF, opening relations seem wrong or at least different form the last version. I the previous only Britain was hostile. In the new version Britain, France and Spain are all hostile
I think I might be indirectly responsible for that.
There was a discussion about merging all the free-play starts into one highly customisable start, and I suggested preserving a BBF style start by allowing you to pick a starting nation and a pirate character type, so that you start as a former citizen of that nation but for some reason they now hate you.
Here is where I suggested it...
I think I may have changed something there. Since you start out as a British officer who mutinies, I set the starting relations to be the same as Britain since that is how it must have been prior to the mutiny.
However, after the mutiny Britain turns hostile. So that may be intentional.
... and whether Pieter read that or had a similar idea himself, he seems to have implemented it.
Ok, but when you go to your personal flag shouldn't France and Spain go to wary or neutral (once it is known that you are not sailing for Britain?)
How do they know you're no longer sailing for Britain? Last they knew, you were a British citizen which meant they didn't like you. Now you're a mutineer, they have a good reason to mistrust you even further because what that means is you're a dishonourable (former) British citizen. For all they know, your quarrel is really with your late commanding officer rather than with Britain in general, and although Britain doesn't see it that way, you may still have some patriotism left. (The fictitious
Captain Blood was sentenced to slavery by Britain for aiding a Monmouth rebel, escaped to become a pirate, and attacked Spain which was Britain's enemy, then ended up being pardoned. France and Spain probably expect you to do likewise.)
You can go to the French and/or Spanish and explain your intentions in person, showing your good will by means of a financial gift to the governor. For practical purposes, this is handled in game when you go to the governor and plead for forgiveness.
Meanwhile Holland and Portugal have presumably never heard of you and don't care what you do as long as you don't do it to them.