One thing I've learned in my years of living as an Autistic person is that ingenuine positive notions in culture can be just as harmful as negative ones, depending on how they are used. For example, saying "the only disability in life is a negative attitude", seemingly intended to inspire through positivity, actually serves to exclude and discriminate against people who have a very real social disability in communicating and connecting with others. It practically erases their experiences from the cultural understanding/context, and offers nothing to comfort them -- quite on the contrary. In practice it is just as bad as if you were to say "socially disabled people are a bunch of misfits who deserve what happens to them, hardly worth any empathy". Both the positive and the negative personal twists on it in this example are equally harmful.
My point is that just because it is made to sound positive and inspire doesn't mean it is actually helpful or offers a useful and balanced perspective. Corporate marketing often employs such false positivity to make people feel inspired without being responsible and genuine about it, and using the positive response for imbalanced, selfish gains -- and Disney has been an expert at this for many decades, influencing our culture at large.
One of Walt Disney's most prominent inspirational quotes, publicised, is: "All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them."
Much of Disney's animated films carried (and still carry) this notion through and through, inspiring current generations of people. But this is actually an ingenuine, false reality:
Walt Disney built Disneyland for his children. They never used it, they were specifically reluctant to visit it once it was open. Walt was an absent parent, sacrificing his relationship with his children for his career and aspirations, for ultimately selfish gains. In this vital case, what he dreamed and pursued with courage did not come true, and for a very good reason: it was out of touch with the natural balance, with reality. He misjudged the values that are truly important in life.
Real fairy tales are nothing like Disney fairy tales -- they acknowledge and pay homage to reality, aspiring to offer guiding insight for our lives, moral lessons.
Disney's adaptation of the Andersen story of The Little Mermaid teaches children to dream in vain, to pursue and sacrifice for unrealistic goals in a relationship. The actual story by Andersen has completely the opposite message, in fact -- that dreaming and sacrificing for the unknown, without signs from nature/life that intuitively and rationally confirm your path is worth taking, can lead to tragedy of the greatest kind. Ariel ends up (literarily) committing suicide in the story because she had sacrificed everything she had in her life for the one man she loves, but who turned out to not return her affections -- to not even know her -- and to practically cheat on her with another woman (from her perspective).
The real Bambi, by Felix Salten, is a commentary of human society, the raw, balanced harshness of nature, and man's imbalanced rational cruelty in it, not simply the cute story of a fawn who lost his mother and searched for his father, supported by everyone around him. Life is both good and bad. Bambi's mother understands and teaches Bambi the vulnerablitiy, the frailty of their lives, their shared existence, Bambi himself goes through a great many cruelties, fears, and hardships, and his father is as cold and strange to him as the wild forces of nature itself. Bambi's greatest ally is nature itself, living inside him -- a vital feature of the story that the Disney film completely omits to present.
Disney's classic animated take on Alice in Wonderland deliberately leaves out the primary message/meaning in the conclusion of Lewis Carroll's long and whimsical tale. Because of this, people have come to associate Alice in Winderland with whackiness, with absurdity, with craziness instead of the genuine sentimental message that it speaks about our imagination, about our childhood. All that Alice has seen, heard, and felt are tangible aspects of actual reality, coloured with her imagination. Alice was connected to, bonding with, and subconsciously learning about her environment all through her daytime dreaming.
It's not enough just to be positive. Positivity can be very much harmful, inspiring denial and hurting oneself and others. One needs to be sincere with themselves, stay true to their own intuition, and remain open and unconditionally loving and caring with others, with the world around them, much like a child, forever learning about life and applying themselves genuinely to newfound awareness and knowledge to grow. One needs to grow wise to understand what's truly important in life and to withstand harm/influence directed at them by people living out of balance with nature. Life is a lifelong, learning, colourful journey -- filled with both positive and negative, and everything beyond, as wide as the colour spectrum on a colour wheel.
It can't be summed up into words, into one sentence. But its balance and ways can be learned and understood intuitively.
My point is that just because it is made to sound positive and inspire doesn't mean it is actually helpful or offers a useful and balanced perspective. Corporate marketing often employs such false positivity to make people feel inspired without being responsible and genuine about it, and using the positive response for imbalanced, selfish gains -- and Disney has been an expert at this for many decades, influencing our culture at large.
One of Walt Disney's most prominent inspirational quotes, publicised, is: "All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them."
Much of Disney's animated films carried (and still carry) this notion through and through, inspiring current generations of people. But this is actually an ingenuine, false reality:
Walt Disney built Disneyland for his children. They never used it, they were specifically reluctant to visit it once it was open. Walt was an absent parent, sacrificing his relationship with his children for his career and aspirations, for ultimately selfish gains. In this vital case, what he dreamed and pursued with courage did not come true, and for a very good reason: it was out of touch with the natural balance, with reality. He misjudged the values that are truly important in life.
Real fairy tales are nothing like Disney fairy tales -- they acknowledge and pay homage to reality, aspiring to offer guiding insight for our lives, moral lessons.
Disney's adaptation of the Andersen story of The Little Mermaid teaches children to dream in vain, to pursue and sacrifice for unrealistic goals in a relationship. The actual story by Andersen has completely the opposite message, in fact -- that dreaming and sacrificing for the unknown, without signs from nature/life that intuitively and rationally confirm your path is worth taking, can lead to tragedy of the greatest kind. Ariel ends up (literarily) committing suicide in the story because she had sacrificed everything she had in her life for the one man she loves, but who turned out to not return her affections -- to not even know her -- and to practically cheat on her with another woman (from her perspective).
The real Bambi, by Felix Salten, is a commentary of human society, the raw, balanced harshness of nature, and man's imbalanced rational cruelty in it, not simply the cute story of a fawn who lost his mother and searched for his father, supported by everyone around him. Life is both good and bad. Bambi's mother understands and teaches Bambi the vulnerablitiy, the frailty of their lives, their shared existence, Bambi himself goes through a great many cruelties, fears, and hardships, and his father is as cold and strange to him as the wild forces of nature itself. Bambi's greatest ally is nature itself, living inside him -- a vital feature of the story that the Disney film completely omits to present.
Disney's classic animated take on Alice in Wonderland deliberately leaves out the primary message/meaning in the conclusion of Lewis Carroll's long and whimsical tale. Because of this, people have come to associate Alice in Winderland with whackiness, with absurdity, with craziness instead of the genuine sentimental message that it speaks about our imagination, about our childhood. All that Alice has seen, heard, and felt are tangible aspects of actual reality, coloured with her imagination. Alice was connected to, bonding with, and subconsciously learning about her environment all through her daytime dreaming.
It's not enough just to be positive. Positivity can be very much harmful, inspiring denial and hurting oneself and others. One needs to be sincere with themselves, stay true to their own intuition, and remain open and unconditionally loving and caring with others, with the world around them, much like a child, forever learning about life and applying themselves genuinely to newfound awareness and knowledge to grow. One needs to grow wise to understand what's truly important in life and to withstand harm/influence directed at them by people living out of balance with nature. Life is a lifelong, learning, colourful journey -- filled with both positive and negative, and everything beyond, as wide as the colour spectrum on a colour wheel.
It can't be summed up into words, into one sentence. But its balance and ways can be learned and understood intuitively.
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