Romance governors daughter

[Nb7]

So, i never tried this before, but i captured San Juan for the British, and after some promotions there, you get to know the daughter of the governor
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Thing is, after a while, i didn't pay much attention to the dialogue, but instead of 'You want to marry me?' (i got rejected once) i told her to meet in private,
the second time i did this i noticed, i lost reputation, and a day passed, insinuating i fornicated with her.
Now, i don't get the option to marry anymore? i don't want to just screw around with the lady lol, i wanted to marry to see what happens.

 

[Grey Roger]

Now that you have high enough rank to attract attention, other British governors may introduce you to their nieces or daughters. Next time, don't suggest a quickie if you're looking for a long term relationship.

 

[Nb7]

ah, so i 'disrespected' the lady honor then, damn, i thought they were going in private to talk, silly.